Because it's stupid.
Thats the answer to the title of this blog.
The end, good read as usual.


Okay so you know my strong point isn't writing. To be honest i don't really understand why i have a blog. I'm rubbish at it. I feel like i would be amazing if i had a podcast... thats if i could stop stuttering my words every second sentence - total tired mum brain. So realistically i shouldn't start a podcast until Indias ...well... 28 and hopefully has moved out. So yeah just bare with me for a few years with this.
Back to the subject.
It really annoys me that still in this ' modern era ' we still are being confined by stereotypes, shapes and sizes. Can we all get over it already?! The thing is i'm finding that it's becoming worse and i was totally guilty of it. I've had a shoody few weeks with getting my brain to realise that I AM OKAY just the way i am and thats what i want anyone thats reading this to feel as well. It's such a easy trap to fall in to seeing all these perfect Victoria secret models do star jumps off mount Everest with just a cute pom pom hat and sweaty betty outfit or the mum next door that has spawned triplets yet is still a size zero and house is spotless. Then you find yourself googling at 2am what fits a 4ft nothing dwarf with short limbs, stupidly long mermaid hair and scribbles for tattoos. We've all been there right?! Okay okay with different words though? right?My point is if i ever get there. We should wear what makes us happy. If we are spending money on clothes why are we wearing what we feel should fit a pear shape instead of that disgustingly fun neon pink chunky jumper?
You were born you and unless you have kardashian / Jenner money nothings changing that. So enjoy you.  Put to bed those words you say to yourself when you look in the mirror. Let's not care what Caron from accounts is going to type about you.
You only have one life don't waste a minute on anyone else.